Nurturing The Parent-Child Connection with The Magic of a Sideways Glance

If you have spent any time with Melinda Webb, founder of Beattie Street Health, Antenatal Educator and Dr Chinese Medicine, then you would know she is a wealth of information when it comes to fertility, pregnancy, birth and postnatal care. She is all about creating positive change in your everyday health and wellbeing. Melinda explores a fascinating aspect of parent-child relationships that's as simple as a sideways glance!

Have you ever noticed how you naturally look at your baby from the corner of your eye? This 'oblique gaze' is more than just a casual glance - it's a powerful tool for building connection and synchrony with your little one.

Here's why that sideways look is so special:

1. It's gentle: 

Babies can find direct eye contact a bit overwhelming. A side glance is softer and more comfortable for them.

2. It's natural: 

Think about how often you multitask while caring for your baby. That sideways look mimics real-life interactions.

3. It encourages shared focus: 

You and your baby often end up looking at the same thing, fostering a sense of connection.

4. It's full of emotion: 

These glances often come with smiles, coos, and other playful expressions that babies love.

This simple interaction is shaping both your and your baby's brain! It's building neural connections, helping with emotional regulation, and laying the groundwork for a strong, secure attachment.

So, next time you find yourself sneaking a sideways peek at your little one, remember - you're not just looking, you're nurturing a deep, beautiful connection.

The power of these small, everyday moments. They're the building blocks of health, wellbeing, and strong family bonds.

Want to learn more about nurturing your connection with your little one? 

Join us for our Calmbirth Antenatal Class with Melinda or join One Nectar’s Prenatal Yoga Class, on Saturdays at 11 am. 

Let's create positive change together!